Everyday, Ordinary People

As most of you know, my husband and I are foster parents and have been for the last 13 years or so. We’ve had over 20 kids enter our lives and that number continues to grow.  My parents started fostering when I was 12 years old so I’ve also been blessed to have many foster brothers and sisters to call my own. This has been my “story” for the past 28 years and frankly it’s all I know.

People tell me all the time that the job we do is amazing. How much they admire us, and how they could never do what we do. I’ve heard that the world needs more people like us. That we must have the patience of saints. People thank us, congratulate us and pat us on the back.

But here’s what I have to say to all of that.

We are no different from anyone else … we just chose to try.

What we’re doing isn’t rocket science, or anything that’s really all that out of the ordinary. We are parenting the exact same way but with extras. We are still the same parents as we were before they moved in. We are exactly like you.

Our lives are so not perfect, just like yours. We have really, really bad days, just like you. We pray for more patience, more income and more free time in our days. We laugh, we cry and we have complete and total meltdowns. Just like you.

We have struggles and challenges that are “different from yours, but that’s all they are, they’re different. We see hurts and pain up close and personal, but we’re all surrounded by that, we just don’t always notice. We have more bodies sitting around the table at meal times, but who doesn’t like having company over? Our world is quite often chaotic, but isn’t yours? We just call it for what it is….Life.

Being a foster parent isn’t something reserved for a “special kind of person”, it’s a journey worth considering. It truly is an honour and a privilege to be able to say that I’m someone’s Mom. And in my case, those blessings are many.

If you’re even remotely considering giving it a try, send me a message. I’d love to help you make a difference. All it takes is everyday, ordinary people willing to give kids a chance. Are you that person?

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7 thoughts on “Everyday, Ordinary People

  1. Judy...your mom August 27, 2013 at 10:08 pm Reply

    You are special to us…but i solidly agree to the rest of it. As long term foster parents weve all heard the good for you..s…but you are absolutely right..one day at a time..one crises at a time..a lot of forgiveness and grace on Both sides..and voila..parents.

  2. vanessamax August 28, 2013 at 2:23 am Reply

    Congratulations! Most of the persons are just afraid of the unknown…We just have to try it instead of thinking about it! And let love rule our way!

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  4. Hethr August 28, 2013 at 8:52 am Reply

    I have always wanted to be a foster parent. My husband is leery of it though, and I truly think it would take both of us to make it work.

  5. 7rin August 30, 2013 at 4:16 pm Reply

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